Saturday, September 10, 2016

Up and down of Breasts for Girls and Women

Men will never understand what it is really like to have breasts or boobies or Idk whatever creepy names people come up with for them.

Now, this may bring in unwanted attention which I certainly don't aspire for, I am writing a general experience of having breasts.
They look great. Who’s gonna deny that? Since we were little, we desired beautiful breasts. But when you grow up and get them, you kind of realize what it is actually like to have them.
  1. You have to wear a bra all the time. You can’t just set them free. Bras are uncomfortable and suffocating. Also, if you don't wear a bra, you are slut shamed and if you decide to wear a bra and a bra strap decides to peek out somewhere, you are slut shamed again.
  2. If you have big breasts, you become an object of ogling and are again slut shamed. If you don't have big breasts, well, you look much younger than you are and people make fun of you.
  3. If you are extra blessed, you are also blessed with terrible, terrible back aches which just don't seem to go ever.
  4. Imagine, you’re getting late for a class and you decide to sprint to reach in time and not miss your attendance. Guess what? You can't do that because your breasts decide to fly everywhere. The same goes with dancing.
  5. People have unreasonable expectations with breasts. So, having lumps of fat on my chest is acceptable but having a little fat on my thighs or on my tummy is not. Hypocrisy? Eh? Not everybody can be Kim Kardashian with a narrow waist and big rack and everything. If you lose weight somewhere in your body, you lose weight everywhere.
  6. You can't sleep on your stomach because otherwise you’ll have a sore chest.
  7. Your breast becomes a part of your identity. Trust me, I was given a name because of them. (no, I am not sharing it.)
  8. Talking about them is not acceptable because it makes people uncomfortable. So, you have to live while pretending that something does not exist on your chest.
But all in all, I am grateful that I was blessed with them. They are just another body part. All of them are beautiful. They are a source of joy and pride, be it big or small.
PS- I mean it, I don't intend this answer to be inappropriate in any way. If I hurt your sentiments or offended you, I apologize.

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